1.让客人和长辈先吃每一道菜
let the elder people and the customer eat first
2.不要用筷子敲碗
don't use the chopsticks hit the bowl
3.不要将手伸到饭桌对面夹菜
don't reach to get the food on the opposite side
4.等大家到齐了，才开始吃
don't eat until everyone is there
5.为主人的长寿、健康、成功干杯
wish for the people who host the dinner
SITTING 入席
Westerners treat with a long table, men and women sit in the owner at both ends, and then the guest of honor men and women in the press and the general order of the guests seating arrangements.
fxtà|?z t??t?zx?x?àá guest of the
honor woman
↗
male Host female male female female male Hostess
↗
the guest of honor man
Tableware 餐具
For the main or meat course, the English keep the fork in the left hand, point curved downward(弯曲向下), and bring the food to the mouth either by sticking the points onto it or in the case of soft vegetables, by placing it firmly on the fork in this position with the knife.
TABLEWARES
The order of dishes in the West
Dinner start with a small dish, which is often called an a starter r the starter you will get a bowl of next dish is the main course,it usually is a beefsteak . A vegetable salad will be a delicious dessert will appear at the table last is a cup of tea or coffee.
Manners in the West
1) As soon as the hostess picks up her napkin(餐巾), pick yours up and lay it on your lap(大腿). Sometimes a roll of bread is wrapped in it; if so, toke it our and put it on your side plate. 2) The Soup Course Dinner usually begins with soup. The largest spoon at your place is the soup spoon. It will be beside your plate at the right-hand side.
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You should meet the waiter(waitress) first
FROM OUT TO IN
Lady first Gentleman Manner
Let’s have some choices
How to call the waiter (waitress) ?
A: Clapping your hands B:Shouting C:Having a snap of the fingers(弹指头) D:Having some communitation with your eyes(眼神示意) E:Nodding
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For ladies
How do you sit down properly?
(就坐时应该由哪一侧入座 ) 就坐时应该由哪一侧入座?) 就坐时应该由哪一侧入座
A:Right B:Left
The skills of slicing meat (such as beef)
切肉技巧
A:From right to left B:From left to right
VARIOUS RULES AND SUGGESTIONS
Sit up straight on your chair; Do not put much food in your mouth at a time; Drink only when there is no food in your mouth; Try not to get into your mouth anything that will have to be taken out; Do not make any nose when you eat; Do not clean your teeth at the table or anywhere in public, either with your finger or a tooth pick(牙签), not even with you tongue.
HELPING YOURSELF AND REFUSING
If a servant passes food around, he will pass the dish in at your left hand so that you can conveniently serve yourself with your right hand. Never serve yourself while the dish is on your right; it is then the turn of your neighbor on the right. It is polite to take some of everything that is passed to you. But if there is something you may not like, you may quietly say: "No thank you.“
Step 1: You will need(你 ( 需要) 需要) A pair of suitable high Heels
Step 2: Heel selection(高跟鞋 ( 的选择) 的选择)
The novice(新手) heel wearer should avoid 10 centimetre stilettos(细跟女 鞋). You may want to start by trying wedges(揳形鞋) or shoes with a thicker heel. Walking in high heels is an art that should be mastered gradually, inch by inch.
Step 3: Stand up(站立) (站立) When practicing, stand up straight in front of a full length mirror and allow your feet to adapt to the position of the heels. Your body weight should be distributed over the balls of your feet as well as through the heels. This is also a good opportunity to admire your outfit and practice a few poses.
Step 4: The first steps(走出第一步) (走出第一步) Try taking small, slow steps at first. Don't bend your knees any more than you would do in flat shoes. Place each foot down heel first, and instantly move your body weight forward so that it transfers over the whole foot. Don't move the other foot until your weight feels secure.
Step 5: Move around(向前走) (向前走) Walk back and forth and try changing direction. Try walking on different surfaces but avoid thick carpets and loose rugs(小毛毯). Walking in high heels will cause your hips(臀部) to sway(摇摆) from side to side. Don‘t try and stop this happening; work with it. Be confident. Think supermodel glamour(魅力) and grace(优雅).
