Its important that you dont spend every waking hour with your lover and your work. Thats not good for any relationship. Pursue other interests together as well as individually. And make sure that you have more in common than your work.
If you meet someone at work and thats all you have in common, you may find yourself talking about nothing else. That could be a problem.
有一点是相当重要的，不要把醒着的每时每刻都放在恋人身上或工作上。这对谁都没有好处。多寻求其它共同的或个人的兴趣。要确信你们两人之间除了工作以外还有许多共同爱好。
若你与你的办公室恋人除了工作就再也没有其它共同语言的.话，你会发现自己除了谈工作，就没有别的事情可谈了。那将是一个大的麻烦。
